Asking her what she wants sounds generous. From her side it can land like a test with no notes, especially if she has never said any of it out loud.

“The Menu” hands her the options. Pages of specific, adult ideas for what to do to and for each other, laid out from Starters to Mains to off-menu, sensual through to adventurous. Nobody has to invent anything or find the words for it, just point at what sounds good and go from there.

You know you need to say something. Then the moment comes, your mouth opens, and the words aren’t there.

This gives you the words, organized by the moment you’re standing in, so you can open to one page and find what to say tonight. Written by a woman, for communicating with women. These are lines chosen for how they land on the other side, not for how good they sound in your head.